
Up until now people were absolutely shocked that Jeremy and I didn't have an iPhones. It just doesn't fit our tech-nerd-designer/engineer profiles to NOT have iPhones. My response was that I was afraid of being too connected - that I would like to keep my phone my phone and my computer my computer.
But then the iPhone 4 came out and our AT&T contracts were up for renewal... and they just looked so damn fine. We were tempted by the fruit. And from there my worst fears about the whole thing came true. My friends have asked "Has it changed your life!?" and I respond "Yeah. Now instead of having mind blowing sex before going to bed Jeremy and I are playing Words With Friends instead. Sexy." I've found that this response makes them a little uncomfortable and they respond with a laugh - but, I hate to say, it's not just a funny exaggeration.
I've had my fun for a good month but I'm ready to put in place a few rules... if only for myself.
The iPhone Rules:
• I will not use my iPhone as a distraction in order to avoid awkward social situations. Like being in an elevator full of strangers. Instead, I will face them head-on, like generations before us, with a small talk and a smile.
• I will not look at my iPhone while have a meal or conversation with someone. This is probably my biggest pet peave in the whole world. It used to kill me when I was iPhone free but since I got mine I've noticed myself slipping into this unattractive habit. When I'm choosing to have a meal with someone, I want that person to feel like they are the most important person in the whole world. I want to give them my undivided attention and would like the same in return. And on that note...
• I will not check my iPhone just because someone else is. This behavior is contagious - like a sneeze. One person checks their phone and it becomes a domino effect. Because nobody likes sitting around looking like they have nothing to do while their friends are checking out what everyone else in the world is doing.
• I will not check my email after 6pm. This extends to my laptop as well. Work has been following me into the evenings and I don't like it. No matter how much that little email icon on my iPhone is haunting me - but I will not check it.
• I will choose reading books or magazines over refreshing my Twitter every 3 seconds. Twitter has become an addiction. I HAVE to know what the 100 people I follow have to say in 140 words or less. The iPhone is an enabler.
• I will not choose playing Angry Birds over getting it on. Again, not just a funny exaggeration. I'm putting an end to this torrid love affair with Angry Birds. In fact, I'm going to ban my iPhone (as sleek and sexy as it is) from hanging out in the bedroom altogether.
With all of that said, I love the maps, cameras and the immediate and accessible resources the iPhone allows. But from here on out, I'm choosing real life over the one that is 4.8 ounces and fits in the palm of my hand.